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Why do we fear? Because it is human nature to be afraid?  Because we haven’t learned to deal with reality? Maybe we are afraid because of both.  Let me say that 100 posts could go into writing about fear….But here is something of interest.

I sometimes can be childish, or could it just be fear? or maybe I am just afraid that what I have shared deeply from my heart may not mean that much to others.   I also fear that maybe I am not appreciated by those I love.  I guess I will never know, for I am only Human.  But…

God has blessed us all, in one way or another. Each of us is unique – some are strong, some smart, some have and some don’t and many do things differently than you or I would.  But remember what you do and the way you do things is your way.  So what does this have to do with Fear???  Everything!

Speaking for myself, I often ask: “If God Blesses me all of the time – why is it that I still fear?” “Why am I afraid?”

And though my faith is strong, I still have the tendency to be afraid.  I find it disappointing when I feel weak when I know I should be strong.  Which leads to another question:  “Am I weak or is it fear?

It’s easy to be afraid and feel weak when in a situation that is uncomfortable or not familiar. It is also easy when these circumstances have led to bruising or hurt in the past and moreso if the bruises turn to scars and the scars run deep.

For example, someone takes advantage of you, does not appreciate you or understand you, or maybe worse – treats you with disrespect and berates you.  That hurts and we do not want to go through it again.

Remember that you were blessed with something that they may not have and wish they did, so they transfer their fears to you.  So the fears you have may be caused from some lost self esteem based on someone else’s mistreating you.  This is a justifiable fear, because no one wants to let others down.

We don’t want to let down those who love us and support us, and especially do not want to let down God.  I know I don’t.  And the last thing I want to do is fear the Blessings that God has given me.

Here are some suggestions to overcome fear and help others based on my own experiences:

1. God wants us to be wise and to be strong – but we have to be discerning;
2. He wants us to trust in Him – He is faithful, always;
3. God has Blessed you with your own gifts – find them;
4. Love those who love and understand you – it is easy to take these people for granted;
5. Love those that don’t even more – they may need the love;
6. Be patient and understanding with others – you never know what their fears are and what they are struggling with;
7. Be patient because remember – it could be you next time;
8. Lift the spirit of others and give them brighter thoughts – especially if they are struggling;
9. Remember that bruises and scars will go away over time and God will heal you if you let him.

The biggest thing of all is this: IF you focus on your fears then you cannot possibly focus on anything else.  Example: If I am focused on failing, I cannot possibly be focused on succeeding.  Make sense?

Look, God brings people into our lives for a reason – we cannot run around thinking they will always hurt us, because if we do we will never fully enjoy the reason they were brought into our lives in the first place.

People are a blessing, good or bad, they are a blessing so let us remind them and ourselves to Be Not Afraid and do not fear the Blessings that God has given You and Me.

I Thank God for all my Blessings and the beautiful people he has brought into my life and the journey he continues to guide me through. And although i may be afraid at times – I know to trust Him.  That is my way and you must find your way.

So, till my next Blog, Take care  of each other and be Fearless.

God Bless all our readers and our Viewers…  But most of all God Bless Our Troops and their Families.

“Walk by Faith and not by Sight!” and Be not Afraid!

Con Amor Y Paz – Brandy Lopez

What constitutes fun to you?

Work, play, spending money, making money, making friends, helping others! What about sharing in God’s Blessings with friends and family? How about doing for the community and sharing God’s family and talents with each other? What if it ends up costing rather than making money? Is it still fun? Or, could it be all of the above?

Entertainment is a serious business! If you don’t believe me, think about all the money that goes into the production of American Idol,  Next Top Model, Hell’s Kitchen, etc…. Then think about all the money that is made….it’s serious money!

But that is what you see on tv.  That is what drives the networks.It’s all about money and viewership. It isn’t about helping the economy.  Sure you get a few winners and a few million is given away, but who does it help?

What about all of the local organizations that get together to help each other out while competing for your hard earned money and time!

Time is short and money is tight for everyone.  But if you have a roof over your head, food in the cupboard, a computer, cell phone  or even a job – count your blessings!  Pass those blessings on.

I look around on the news and see disaster and destruction with a few positive human interest stories thrown in between and realize how fortunate I am – unemployed and all!

So I share the following to make the world a better place:

1. Find a cause;
2. Give of time and money;
3. Share your resources;
4. Don’t be greedy;
5. Trust God,
6. Spread the word!

Look, I am not telling you what to do, I am merely suggesting how we can make this a better place.  If I am on the couch watching who the next top model will be or trying to figure out who I love to hate – then I am not helping out in my community.  In other words, don’t think less of self but think of self less!

Think about it, what if your family lived in Haiti, Mexico, needed a transplant, or just some blood – wouldn’t you like it if some helpers were there for you?  That is all I am saying – you are already great – but let’s be great together to make this a better place to live….

At least be an organ donor – It could be the last great thing you do!

I will tell you why – because LFTV is involved with a film project in San Antonio and a bunch of us got together to help bring awareness to the project…”The Way Out!”

Some made money.  We didn’t – in fact we gave our booth away so others could make money.  It took, time energy and lost income. And it was hot!

But guess what….It was a blessing.  We made new friends, heard great music, took part in a Red Carpet and my daughter got to hang out in the pool all day!  So special thanks go to Brandy Lopez, Rene Salazar, Ruben Resendez, Hot Henrietta, Cleto Rodriguez, Lisa Johnson, Mystic Knights, Coach Lowry, Network for Young Artists, Gill Jimenez, Javier Covarrubias, A First Class Limousine AUEDA, the San Antonio Film Council, SA Film Works, all of the Clarion staff, Fashion Group International (San Antonio), the models, Jesus Alvarez, Free Apartment Locators,  Next Day, Yung Fyngas, Canela, Victoria Acosta, Ruben Acosta, Danny de la Paz, Jesse Borrego, Johnny Bibbs and everyone else…Forgive me if I left anyone out…

And Boy – it was a scorcher too.  So many special thanks again – thanks to all and may God Bless all of those who helped here and who help around the world within their community.

It will pay dividends in the end and God always pays back.  Remember, You cannot out-give God!

And to all who read us – thanks. To all who comment – thanks to you too – We appreciate your comments.  Please  keep them coming and if you really want to reach us, send a comment to Latinfusiontv@gmail.com.

Take care, God Bless and Cool Runnings mon! – Michael

Today we celebrate our Independence Day as a Nation!  It is a time to be thankful for what we have by way of Freedom.  Freedom isn’t free! Do not take it for granted, just ask people from others countries who have had to struggle with oppression.

But there is more to freedom than that as a nation.  One needs to “Be Free” as a person.  One needs to be free to Enjoy life, family and the enjoy the pursuit of happiness. And not be held hostage by lifestyle and fear

Yesterday, I spent a few hours  speaking with a family about alcohol abuse and its effects. They asked me to intervene and moderate a discussion with dad.  Dad did not like this one bit – I understand why he wouldn’t.

The family is in bondage and the father is holding them hostage.  But he loves them and they love him. However, that is not freedom! I understand this too. Because I have held hostages also – with my addictions and behavior.

So I say this – if you are struggling with oppression – be it self imposed or otherwise – Work to BE FREE!  Seek help, dig deep, trust God and work your way out!  But do not try to go at it alone.  There are people who will support your efforts.

Freedom is to be enjoyed and I love the fact that I am no longer a slave to alcohol and drugs. I love my family and they love me. And today I even have friends that care about me deeply, because I truly care about them…

So… Please enjoy your freedoms and say hi to someone you don’t know.  Strike up a conversation.  Do something that makes you feel free – go for a walk, I don’t know, but do something – understand that what little freedoms we do have – someone paid the ultimate price for us – be grateful!

So today, I got to enjoy my freedom and Celebrate the Fourth of July at Woodlawn Lake watching fireworks.  And I want to say the following: God Bless America, I Support our troops and I am Proud to be an American.

Finally, We appreciate you all who read our blog – Please know that we love and appreciate you all and enjoy your comments.   Thanks for reading and sharing.  We love it!

Oh yeah, you can check out our July 4th video and pics on our website and gallery.

God Bless, Take care and Cool Runnings  — Michael Arellano

Just a quick note to apologize for not getting this out on the day celebrated as Father’s Day! But if you are a dad, every day is Father’s Day, we just get special recognition on this day.

A few notes on what it means to be a parent and a father.

1. It is important to set a good example as a father and to be a parent rather than a friend.  That day will come.  Even so, I am not sure being a friend is as important as being a father.
2. Teaching responsibility is very important, including the little things that can mean so much;
3. Teaching children about choices is more important, along with the consequences of bad choices;
4. Learning about the consequences of actions is important also, but it is wise to teach about our part of any situation – it is easy to play the victim, but it is difficult to stop, look and see what part i had to do with anything – it teaches the following -
5. Accountability – i didn’t do it, it wasn’t my fault – perhaps, but in most cases, we had some part to play – like choosing to hang with that group, etc…
6. God sometimes does things that make no sense – and it is difficult to try to figure God out, so don’t – just look to God for help;
7. Teach them about spirituality, worship and Faith – these things will get one through the good and bad times;
8. Love your children – I love both my kids and I let them know it by saying “I Love You!”;
9. Being a man does not mean not showing emotion – it means knowing when to show emotion;
10. Be gentle when they do wrong – yelling is not telling, telling is not teaching and teaching takes patience; and
11. learn to Encourage them and impart the need to dream and be daring, enjoy life and live free…the world has enough rules in place – and there will be plenty of people to knock us down – teach them that it is not the end but a beginning;
12. Teach them to stand up for themselves and not be bullies but to help and protect the weaker ones – this will go a long way….

I am learning as I go, I am not a perfect person nor the perfect dad – but my kids love me (for now, anyway) and I love them.  I do the best I can and I often fail – but I do not give up and I always go to God for help…

These little things have changed my life and I often look back on my life and thank God for my dad and granddad.  Some where not as fortunate as I and have still become good parents.

I just wish you all well and patience with our children – they are our future. Teach them to love and to give and the world will be a better place – I am sure of it.

Take care, God Bless and Cool Runnings, mon!  Michael Arellano